Today in class I learned quite a lot. A little side not before I get started. I thought it was funny that in class we were learning about love and Valentines Day is tomorrow.
OK, so today what I learned most was that emotions really confuse the mind, especially in girls. For example if the relationship is physical from the start and less on an emotional level, the person may feel they are in love because the brain releases certain chemicals with even the slightest touch. This is not necessarily love. This is just one example why people should not begin a relationship on only physical aspects. You should first get to know one another first, go on dates with other people. No this isn’t cheating, you’re dating, not in a relationship. Dating multiple people is good, this way you are not so absorbed in that one person and you can find out how you truly feel without your brain being all crazy and confused. Then when you figure out who you actually like you can start steady dating and getting to know each other better. Go on dates. Let’s define a date. A date, is on a certain day two people agree to meet up and do a certain activity, it is not hanging out at your house cuddling and watching a movie or kissing. Nope. Don’t do that. Do a variety of activities. This is a good start! I’m still learning so after the dating I’m not to sure where to go from there, but I’m sure I will continue to learn more on this subject.
Side note: I’m so glad I am taking this class, I’m learning so much about relationships and family!!!!!
"Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten." 